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How to tell him he is not that great in bed?

27 October 2021, Seytoo
How to tell him he is not that great in bed?

“He has a list of techniques that he performs because he likes to think of himself as a bedroom artist.”

One reader asks: “After my 23-year marriage ended, I met a great man who fulfills me in almost every way. A hardened bachelor, he has this nasty habit of telling me that his former mistresses found him great in bed. I find it a bit awkward and not exceptional. Do I have to be honest? Help! ”

According to a dating expert, you should be wary of men who brag about being such good lovers. “He has a list of techniques that he performs because he likes to think of himself as a bedroom artist.” But if he has never received criticism, it may be because he never had a serious relationship. After a one-night stand, we politely settle for “that was great” and adios.

“People who say ‘no one has ever complained’ are generally closed to any form of criticism,” the expert adds: “Surely this excess of self-confidence hides a mountain of insecurities. When you're really good about yourself, you don't need to think of yourself as a ‘Sex God,’ you would know that different women have different needs, that no one is good or bad in bed and that's an alchemy story between two people. ”

How to approach the subject without offending it? “You have to be honest with him and tell him that as much as you enjoy making love with him a lot, you would like to suggest some innovations under the covers. Begin your suggestions with, “I'm sure you're doing very well...” Please take matters into your own hands, and if he protests, assure him that all of your former lovers thought you were wonderful.”
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