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How to forget a man you truly love in 4 tips?

27 October 2021, Lamethodevieux
How to forget a man you truly love in 4 tips?

You are a girl and you often dream of the love that fairy tales tell you: the princess, the prince and the "they lived happily ...". It's normal. I tell you again, this is more than normal. And not to hide anything from you, even us men we lend ourselves to this game, oh yes!

But in reality it happens that it is: the princess (you) and the prince but not together. And yet you love this man who haunts your dreams of the night and your daydreams of the day. You try over and over again to get his attention but it doesn't work or you've shared a piece of your life together but it's over.

“How to forget the man you love” is now the big question that has taken place in your dreams and daydreams.

Make yourself a reason.

Whether or not you've been through something with the man you love, you must, if you really want to forget him, give yourself a reason: either it's over, and definitely, or nothing will ever happen. You must already accept this idea. It’s not easy, but it’s the first step to take.

Indeed, how do you forget someone when you still hope you can have a relationship with them? You have to convince yourself that it is over for good. Do not hide your face and do not spare yourself YOUNG GIRL. At first it will be difficult, but who said forgetting a man you love would be easy?

There are several ways to help you face it: yourself or your friends, your family and then you. Those close to you who know you can help you put things straight about your situation, without judging you, only by allowing you to see the big picture.

If, as a woman in love who tries to forget, you are going to tend to go to extremes of the genre "anyway it's a finished asshole" or "but he's so perfect", your loved ones will know how to measure them. things: there are positive and negative. Being aware of this allows you to have the right ideas from the start and not to start forever wondering about the personality of the man you love.

The questions about Him passed and having their answer, we can make up our mind about our relationship with him. Again friends or family can be there to help you keep an objective look.

If you've never had a history other than friendship with the man you love and you really want to forget about him, just tell yourself that you weren't meant to be together. This is very difficult to accept, especially when there is no proof, no facts to prove it, but it is nevertheless essential if you want to succeed in moving on.

Take care of the mind.

After a discussion with your friends or even a thought alone, you have to make up your mind and then try to act as if indeed, you had forgotten it. Even if obviously this will not happen overnight.

It's simple: take care and don't give yourself the opportunity (at least not too much) to think again and again about the possible of your relationship, your feelings for him etc. As I often tell boys who sometimes find themselves in the same situation, do what you love and don't hesitate to discover other things. Intellectual, artistic, sporting activities: you choose!

And why not go shopping with friends to boost your morale and leave with a new wardrobe to a new life where you won't have your mind taken over by this man you want to forget?

Doing lots of things in your day, changing and discovering new passions, YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU WILL HAVE much less time to devote to the man who haunted YOU until then.

Live!

And with all that: you will live! Your life doesn’t have to revolve around a single occupation, a center that would be that man you love but want to forget. So go out, meet new people and don't deny yourself a love affair.

Because yes: to change your habits, to make discoveries and to go out all the more you will meet new people and maybe you will have love stories here and there and one that will last and you will fill. Realizing that you can be perfectly happy with another person is a great way to forget someone. Be careful -waaw- not to go there again to an extreme, that is to say to try to have as many relationships as possible, even one evening to forget your love. It is a real relationship with attentions, tenderness, charming habits and follies that spice up life as a couple that will help you forget. Not a night in the arms of a recently met guy.

But if this helps some of us (since there is everything in Senegal now), it isn't for all so don't force yourself to see men if you don't want to. It will especially have the opposite effect and you will tell yourself that you were much better with your past love or that it would be totally different and on the contrary, wonderful, if you were with him.

Be brave!

Written like this in an article it seems quick and easy to forget your loved one when you read it, but, no, you don't. You are going to need real will and courage. If you just think you love this man it will be quick but if it is true love it will be much longer and painful.

To be truly happy you have to truly forget it and not put it aside over time in a corner of your mind and heart. And that’s harder than it looks despite the distance you try to put between yourself and him, despite the years without seeing each other, despite the fact that you went on your way without him.

It is a difficult path to forget a man you really love, but it will prevent you from waking up one morning realizing that in the end you do not love your husband, that only your children make you satisfied with the life that you lead and that you still love this man you knew years ago.
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